When I first read “Refuse to Choose” by Barbara Sher (not an affiliate link) I was incredibly relieved. I had always thought something was wrong with me because I had so many interests, and I would be completely enthralled with one thing for awhile and then give it up in a moment and jump into something else. Society (not to mention family) seemed to disapprove of this behavior, and it always had me wishing I only loved one thing so I could define my future.
As it turns out, I’m not “ADD” as many people liked to call it. I’m totally normal. In other moments in history, these personality types were not considered “lost souls” who couldn’t make up their minds. They were called