[VIDEO TRANSCRIPT]:
What Is Your Puzzle Shape in Relationships?
So sometimes people get caught in a relationship that seems to repeat over and over again and they seem to keep attracting the same people into their lives. And what’s happening here, is that the way I see it, humans are kind of like a puzzle piece.
“When we work on ourselves, other people don’t fit anymore.”
Our puzzle piece is unique to our dysfunctions and our level of personal growth, and the other puzzle piece seems to fit right into to all of that stuff–to the person that we are.
The Work is On Ourselves
You don’t need matching tattoos to have a happy relationship…
When we work on ourselves and we change that puzzle piece, then the other people don’t fit anymore — that repeat thing that keeps happening.
So it’s not about running out to find another person, it’s about changing you, and changing that shape of your puzzle piece, so that it simply won’t fit–it’ll be obvious that it won’t fit when you meet some people that are like that (dysfunctional) again.
Connect Better in Relationships
You won’t connect well with a Narcissist and all of your relationships will be greatly improved.
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Paul Strobl, MBA, CPC
Owner of Confide Coaching, LLC
Paul is a Master Life Coach for GenX and GenY executives and business owners. Originally from Houston, Texas, he has been location independent for most of his adult life. He currently resides in the Rhodope Mountains of Bulgaria near the Greek border with his brilliant wife, 13-year-old stepson (officially adopted in 2021!) and a Posavac Hound rescue.
