Want to practice mindfulness but don’t have time to do so?

Seriously? Get my Zen while sitting in traffic? Yes! As a native Houstonian, I know it is possible. Road rage is on the rise, y’all, so we really need to find ways to chill out.

Here’s three known ways to more happiness that you can practice while on your morning or afternoon commute.

Be Present

You are exactly where you are supposed to be. Worrying about being late isn’t going to get you there any faster, and it will only create more stress if you don’t accept where you are right now. Behind a Suburban. Stuck in traffic. Where else could you possibly be? Practicing meditation can be a daily reminder for you to be more present.

Practice Empathy

Empathy is simply putting yourself in another’s shoes, or, in this instance, in another’s driver’s seat.

When you see someone distracted who cut you off, there are two ways to react: one involves gestures or yelling that you would rather not relay to your mother, and the other is to stop and think, “Yeah, I’ve done that before.”

The second one is much more peaceful. Try it out to get started with mindfulness.

Try a Little Compassion

That old lady who’s had her blinker on forever who no one is letting change lanes? Let her in. Be cautious and drive safely, and don’t forget there are small ways to help others in a positive way everywhere you look.

It probably won’t matter much if you get to where you’re going 5 or 10 seconds earlier. You’ll feel better, and so will she.

What are some things you would like to change about your behavior while stuck in traffic?

p.s. – Want to learn how to put these into practice? Book a conversation with me and let’s have a chat.

Paul Strobl, MBA, CPC

Paul Strobl, MBA, CPC

Owner of Confide Coaching, LLC

Paul is a Master Life Coach for GenX and GenY executives and business owners. Originally from Houston, Texas, he has been location independent for most of his adult life. He currently resides in the Rhodope Mountains of Bulgaria near the Greek border with his brilliant wife, 13-year-old stepson (officially adopted in 2021!) and a Posavac Hound rescue.